Congratulations to Astron
Solutions’ client
Utica National Insurance Group. Utica
National will receive the Ursula Flagg Award for
Human Resource Excellence in Human Resource
Development on October 19th. The
Mohawk Valley SHRM chapter in Utica, NY annually
gives the Ursula Flagg Awards in a variety of HR
categories.
Welcome to the Family!
Mercury Air Group
Mercury Air Group is a
global leader in the aviation services industry.
Their core businesses include providing fuel and
related services to commercial, business, and
government aviation customers as well as air
cargo services for airlines and forwarders.
Veterans of the American Volunteer Group -
Flying Tigers founded Mercury Air Cargo after
World War II.
Currently, Mercury Air Group conducts business
on five continents, spanning the globe with more
than 75 locations in all.
Astron Solutions has been
working with Mercury Air on their customized
Sales Compensation Audit, providing an up-to-the
minute look at their diverse sales staff. The
results will allow Mercury Air to provide a
state-of-the-art sales compensation program to
their employees.
“My
Cubicle or Yours?”
HR’s Response to Workplace
Romances
It all started innocently
enough. Monica Smith* sat directly next to Matt
Walden* at the busy law office where they both
worked. After a few months of shared lunch
hours and happy hour socializing, they decided
to take their newly found friendship to the next
level. “We formed an instant bond that quickly
turned romantic. Unfortunately, I wasn’t
thinking of the possible consequences at the
time,” she explained.
Nor do many employees
entering into workplace romances. But who could
blame them? Work accounts for the better part
of an individual’s week, and it’s only natural
that certain attractions between employees may
surface. Of course, many healthy workplace
romances thrive without incident, but when
romance turns sour or interferes with
productivity, the results can be detrimental to
both employees and employers.
In a
2002 SHRM / CareerJournal.com survey on
workplace romance, findings show that the
majority of Human Resource professionals (81
percent) and corporate executives (76 percent)
believe that romances are dangerous because they
can lead to conflict in the workplace. Of these
two groups, 76% and 71%, respectively, agree
that workplace romance is something they would
personally avoid.
Although most agree that
workplace romance is not a wise idea, very few
organizations have instituted policies banning
it. Former SHRM President and CEO, Helen
Drinan, SPHR, explains in the article that there
is a better way to handle the situation. “It’s
natural that when people work together closely,
romantic feelings sometimes emerge. That is why
organizations need a workplace romance policy to
help set guidelines for what is and is not
appropriate, and to prepare the organization for
challenges that may arise.”
Workplace romance policies
also help ease organizations’ concerns about
possible sexual harassment charges, threats to
productivity, and other negative circumstances
resulting from office relationships. The
Workforce.com Expert Q & A on Workplace Romance
offers advice on how organizations can protect
themselves. The first step would be to
institute a policy that requires the parties
involved in a workplace relationship to disclose
that relationship to management or human
resources. Employers can then make appropriate
staffing decisions to assure that the more
senior person involved in the relationship has
no control or influence over the work assignment
of the other person at any time. Employers can
also require employees to advise the company if
the relationship terminates or if it changes to
an involuntary situation. This can protect the
organization from sexual harassment claims that
can be later made by an employee stating that
the relationship was forced or coerced.
In the
Workforce.com article, “When
Office Love Goes Bad,” it is clear that
banning office romances is not recommended. As
stated, “No one has estimated how many valuable
workers desert jobs with dating taboos so that
they can see their sweetheart without apology,
or determined how much time and money is spent
to implement and enforce rules against workplace
intimacy.”
So what happened to Monica
and Matt? After three months of dating, and
being the focus of an office rumor mill that
could rival The National Enquirer, the
pressure of carrying on a relationship at work
became too much for them to bear. They decided
to part ways, after which they were suddenly
faced with the harsh reality of working with an
“ex” every day. Sadly, the friendship that they
once shared was lost, daily work activities and
after-work outings with co-workers became
awkward and uncomfortable, and finally, Monica,
a valued employee, decided to leave the firm.
In contrast to the
derailment of Monica and Matt’s relationship,
there are a good number of workplace romances
that have happy endings. According to the SHRM
survey, a majority of HR professionals (66
percent) and corporate executives (57 percent)
reported that over the past five years,
employees who had been involved in a workplace
romance got married. In fact, even Microsoft
mogul Bill Gates married Marketing Manager
Melinda French in 1994. Today, they are happily
married with a daughter.
* Names have been changed
to protect the individuals’ anonymity.
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